Your actions after an argument with your spouse are much more important than what you actually argued about. How you both behave after conflict will determine how you will feel about each other and how you’ll approach conflict in the future. If you can speak calmly and reconcile your differences, you’ll both know that, even if you disagree, you are there for each other. Some behaviors after an argument are destructive and can be harmful to the marriage. Holding a grudge can cause anger to build, leading to an explosion. Giving the silent treatment or making threats are both forms of punishment and ways to manipulate your spouse.
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