Secrets in your marriage may be hindering intimacy with your spouse. We cannot keep secrets in our marriage and expect it to thrive, as secrets close doors between people. Intimacy is predicated on our ability to expose all of ourselves to someone we love. In dealing with secrets, it helps when a couple operates from a similar value base. Having shared views on honesty, openness, and personal integrity can influence how a couple goes about exposing painful or personal issues of a sensitive nature. When honesty is prized above personal comfort, then uncovering harmful secrets will take priority simply because the individual’s moral base makes this the right thing to do.
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